May
19
RAPPORT-TALK AND REPORT-TALK
It is
said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. I think it is a
completely true sentence because Mars and Venus are two opposite planets and
they sum men and women. Men and women are different from each other in terms of
everything; their lifestyles, interests, bodies, needs and so on. Their
conversation styles are one of the biggest differences between them, maybe the
biggest one. In this article ‘Rapport-talk and Report-talk’, the writer says that
men talk for information while women talk for interaction. By means of this,
she thinks that men do speak comfortably in public whereas women like private
speaking as comfortably. I agree with the writer that the speakings of men and
women can change according to the person or people whom they talk with. To
start with, women are emotional creatures and because of that they talk about
their feelings much more then men. I know that they really love about to do
this. In opposed to women, men are not like that. They like giving information
while they are talking or they talk about the news especially the ones that are
related to sports more than details with particular reasons of the situations. Even if a man is sentimental,
he doesn’t like talk about his problems about his job, his feelings about his marriage
or shortly about his life, for instance. In consequently, we said that women
and men are different but they can both talk more. This situation changes in
accordance with the subject and I think that their conversation difference
between them is the result of their interests and lifestyle. Moreover, another
reason for the difference in their conversations may depend on the person or
people whom they talk with. For example, men can talk confidently and
confortably with people whoever they are, even if they don’t know but women are
not like that. I think they can do this with only friends or familiar people.
This situation is again related for things that I mentioned before. All in all, not only women but also men can talk more with
regard to the topic that they talk about and the people whom they speak with,
and in my opinion we all should show respect the people whoever they are and
whatever they do.
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